Absolutely!!!! Oh I was just crushed and crippled until I realized I was only mourning what I thought I had in the relationship, not what I actually had. Tell yourself the truth and it will set you free. That's the way you get your head out of these situations and PTSD. You definitely will feel better and have a hopeful and bright and happy future. It took me a year and 2 months to get my head together because of the abuse, but when I did and realized what I told you about, I was free and I started getting better and doing just one thing each day and work my way up. You'll be okay honey. You'll be whole again. But it does take work on your part. By working on yourself, you are undoing the victimizing part. You have to make up your mind that you will not stay victimized. ❤🙏🤗