Am I just mean?

My boyfriend's (34) sister (23) lives with him and she is afraid of the dark.

He has siri activated lights in his house.
So he set up the hallways lights to go on when she's within a close radius.

He is often home, they have a dog and if she's home alone as its an apartment block the hallways light go on which would give her time to turn on the light.

I know it's not a big deal but it's one of the many things he does to "help" her.

I dunno she comes across very young for her 23 years. 😕 Observers perspective.

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SW-User

Is she the youngest?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@SW-User yes. I find it hard to be compassionate towards her when I've heard stories over them constantly pandering to her demands. Ie not wanting what was prepared for dinner and dad running out to get what she wants instead.

As I mentioned to someone I think I'm just jealous.

SW-User

@Mellowgirl No, it makes sense. I asked because the youngest child tends to be more spoiled. My sis in law is like that too, she grew up with her parents doing everything and anything that she wanted. But thankfully she doesn’t have to live with us. Is there a reason why she has to live with your bf at 23 ?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@SW-User they lived in a cramped situation. When he moved he invited her to live with him. She works part time and wouldn't be able to afford city rent.
She stays there with her boyfriend.

ScarletWitch · 31-35, F

@Mellowgirl wait she is 23 and has a bf that lives with her? If she is able to muster a relationship, have sex. Etc... She needs to grow up.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@ScarletWitch that's funny...
I observe as its not my family.
But as I've said to others I'm probably just jealous...
Can't think of anyway to justify this.