How do you decide which people you let in your life?
Been wondering this lately. Growing up, you realize everybody shouldn't have a place in your life. Curious how you guys decide if somebody is worth having in your life.
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
I haven't found anyone I'm willing to let in yet, be it friendship or love. I like to think for friendship some shared bond or ability to communicate on some subject. As to love, that's tough. It would have to be someone I would want to take hiking with me, or go visit places, but that seems somewhat shallow as that's me oriented. I don't know what she would want as I don't know her. So it would have to be someone willing to do my half while I'd be open to her half, whatever it is. And I just have no freaken clue as to how to determine that in advance.