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Your life can change overnight

After the first day of school at 5 years old, I stopped playing with dolls because “I’m a student now.” It was as if a switch had been flipped inside me, a new chapter beginning where dolls suddenly seemed too childish, too distant from the responsibilities and challenges of being a student.

And at 15, after reading about vegetarianism, I stopped eating meat for 5 years because it completely lost its appeal. There were ethical considerations for animal welfare, environmental concerns over the impact of meat production, and a growing awareness of health benefits from a plant-based diet.

Again still, at 36, I uprooted my secure, financially stable life in Florida to travel the world and grow as a person, woman, teacher, and musician.

Time and time again, I grew out of something that wasn’t serving me. These examples just scratch the surface. Slowly, then all at once, like a tree being pulled out at the roots. Each change was a process of shedding old skins, a shedding that sometimes felt like losing a part of myself but always led to a clearer sense of who I was becoming.

Patterns of growth are not always clear in the moment but reveal themselves in hindsight! This is why everyone should be bold, brave, and willing to embrace change even if it seems terrifying!
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My question would be, why do we always have to do what other people say is good for us or that we should be changing or adjusting to? What happened to our own God-given sense of having the intelligence to know for ourselves, by instinct and wisdom, what is best for us, without being forced? Is it really smart to leave a secure job, when jobs are more and more scarce every day? I mean if that's what you felt was best, then all power to you and I wish you the best, but that could also backfire. If you had another job waiting for you, that seems more sensible to me, but in this day and age that seems way too risky, to me, anyway.

Like a tree being pulled out of its roots, is right! That's not normal, nor is it healthy for the tree!

If we allow it, people will tell us what we are, who we are, what we should be doing, how we should be dressing, and controlling every aspect of our Lives, if we will allow it. That's what I had been used to and suffered from my parents, who obviously thought I must be an idiot and I can't think for myself, which led to horrible low opinions of myself. Low self-esteem. I resented it. To me, that's not freedom.
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@EgleTunes100K As long as it made you happy, then I am happy for you. ❤️🤗
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