How would you you feel if you were dating, and paid for four dinners in a row, and made dinner...

OlderSometimesWiser · F

I’d feel like it was time to return him to his natural habitat.

deadgerbil · 22-25

I would feel embarrassed af if I was with a girl and she was paying for my dinners

Why settle for weirdos?

Piper · 61-69, F

I'd feel they didn't value me, and would almost surely never care about the 'give and take' part of a good relationship.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

I think someone who is low on money should be up front about it early on. He can then plan things that don't cost a lot but show he wants to spend time with you, like making some sandwiches and having a picnic in a park.

His behavior certainly gives the appearance that he was planning to exploit you for as long as he could get away with it.

AmbivalentFriability · 26-30

I'd be pretty pissed at the lack of effort and move on.

If they cared, they would have gone out of their way to do something nice for me without me having to ask. When you like people you consider them and do nice things for them without needing to be asked.

bijouxbroussard · F

I guess I’m still pretty old school, but I figure if they’re asking for the date, they should be able to pay. That’s dating 101. To me, equality means I pay (or I cook) if I’m the one extending the invitation. A guy who asks but can’t afford to pay (or cook), can’t really afford to date.

NerdyPotato · M

Maybe those people shouldn't date if they can't even contribute to anything.

saragoodtimes · F

hopefully it would make him realize why he isn't getting laid

Fairydust · F

Yeah I’d be like nope, on ya bike matey. 🚲💨

Ontheroad · M

Maybe it's more they find you?

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

I’d be done with him

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I would be done with that person because if they can’t afford to buy me dinner then they can’t manage money and I don’t want to deal with someone like that.

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How would you you feel if you were dating, and paid for four dinners in a row, and made dinner every other time