Have you ever done yourself wrong ?? Did you have control over it??

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Have you ever done yourself wrong ?? Did you have control over it??

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pearllederman · 61-69, F

yes, I think I did that when I moved here, wish I had gone back to where I used to live, never have friends to hang out with, not even in church, thought of moving back.

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pearllederman · 61-69, F

@Soossie im glad someone agrees with me, im supposed to get a bunch of money from wells fargo, guess back in 2008 they kept taking money out of our accts, someone that worked there was doing that, i wasnt checking my acct as much back then so i didnt notice it but its on their records, now they have to give it back to us, so that will give me more money to move with if i want to

Soossie

@pearllederman

That’s a wonderful news … Please don’t rush into it tho and think it through … 🥰🤗❤️

pearllederman · 61-69, F

@Soossie okay

Matt85 · 36-40, M

I used to self punish. So glad I don't do that anymore....

Soossie

@Matt85

I too, am glad that you don’t do it anymore …

TryingtoLava

yup :( missing your posts! I got this one thou :) and i usedta have control but they broke the feed!! I love youuu

Soossie

@TryingtoLava

Hi sweetie … haven’t been here for a while … and it’s wonderful to see you …

You will get your control back … I’m sure ..

I love you too 🤗❤️

mindstruggle

I just wanted to say yes.

Soossie

@mindstruggle

Ok darling .. but I hope that it belongs to your past … 🤗🌹

mindstruggle

@Soossie
Thank’s sossie! I hope I’m making good decisions now.

Soossie

@mindstruggle

I hope so too, but even if you don’t, then try to become stronger and do it next time .. 🥰❤️

thinkingoutloud · F

I'm familiar with self sabotage.
Every time I think it's under control, another aspect rears up showing me it's not. But I have to say I am much more in control than I was. So that is good.

Soossie

@thinkingoutloud

You are very much aware of the process … most people don’t succeed in realizing the self thought control at first … but gradually we learn by experience …

🌹🌹

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

Yes, I am very familiar. I hope I have learned some, and I know I have, but I'm bound to commit wrong upon myself again without even knowing then. That is the game of life - it really does become how do you pick yourself up and pray you have learned that if you fuck up, you are with people compassionate and loving, so you come out with new deeper understandings.

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Soossie

@thewindupbirdchronicles

I hope you will stay on your foot and succeed ….

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@Soossie Thank you, my so sweet and caring friend. I'm using them as sources of vitality, gratitude, and a healthy dose of humanity. The older you become, even if you are not religious, you learn the value of faith more.

Soossie

@thewindupbirdchronicles

Amen ….

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

When your doing yourself wrong it has nothing to do with yourself it's to do with thoughts on your mind that have control over you .
That's doing wrong .
It's acting on the temptations.
Why you act ?
You get temporary reliefs but after you regret it and that starts the cycle all over again and again
I have religious views on that .
I tell you .
It's a spiritual warfare .
That's my experience 🙂

Soossie

@riseofthemachine

I agree with most part of what you said … However,

[quote] When your doing yourself wrong it has nothing to do with yourself it's to do with thoughts on your mind that have control over you .[/quote]

Your thoughts belong to you anyway and when you stop doing yourself wrong, then it should mean that you always have a control on your thoughts, hence, self … that does not include sever mental sicknesses of course …