I had a little sad day

I am in pain due to two repetitive shoulder dislocations, one yesterday and one in the morning and I felt so alone in dealing with it.. Shifus just avoiding talking and the other students keep on their training. I'd like it if they were a little, you know just a little bit more caring with me. No. Cold. I've cried and cried by myself. One student that we communicate better sat with me for a minute in the morning and asked me if I needed anything, and told me to let him know. That was nice. But it was all that I got compassion -wise from all of them.

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scorpio611 · 41-45, M

How you feeling now ? Cold Soak n Hot Soak...it helps in healing fast. Maybe Chinese people are like that ? Or maybe the students are their to just learn and master the skills and not in building up relationships...i don't know. It could be one of the key traits so the KungFu learners can stay focused. I could be wrong.

But i would really like to say...do not expect anything from anyone. That is the mantra for happy being. I know its easier said than done but once you start doing it, you don't get hurt anymore.. Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee

elafina · 36-40, F

@scorpio611 I am expecting the basic of human spirits not something over the stars.
It's many factors and I cannot really know what is what, but from here it seems some sort of disability, this indifference, cmon we live and train all together under the same roof for months. It's sad

scorpio611 · 41-45, M

@elafina People can be different everywhere. But maybe you are overseeing the good traits of their personalities.
Thinking way too much. You guys should eat and drink together maybe