Is it hard to parent today?

My 21-year-old stepdaughter has taken the scenic route to independence. She's mastered the art of relying on me for rides because she's "too afraid to drive."

I've had to draw the line, encouraging her to spread her wings and conquer her fears. It's not always easy, but I believe in her ability to grow.

Have you faced a similar situation with your young adult child resisting the road to adulthood?

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BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

I was too afraid to drive the first few months after I got my licence. People I trusted would go along with me whenever I had to drive, to guide or answer me if I had any problem.
The pushed me, but also supported me.

I've been driving ever since, probably more than I should.

deadteddy · 26-30, F

@BarbossasHusband Driving can be fun. Especially when you have nice views as you go.

BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

@deadteddy I know. But that doesn't change the fact I was too afraid to drive alone the first few months.