Is it hard to parent today?

My 21-year-old stepdaughter has taken the scenic route to independence. She's mastered the art of relying on me for rides because she's "too afraid to drive."

I've had to draw the line, encouraging her to spread her wings and conquer her fears. It's not always easy, but I believe in her ability to grow.

Have you faced a similar situation with your young adult child resisting the road to adulthood?

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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Well, this is in the past for me with mine.. But...I would and dod take a different approach that worked out. I let then use Dads taxi service, But traded them for responsibility in other areas. So pick a chore you need done for you. And I mean real one you would be grateful for. And trade them.. There is more than one way to teach responsibility. No stepdaughter is an island..😷

WiFiWitch · 41-45, F

@whowasthatmaskedman she would get in her mind that i will drive her anywhere if she does chores.

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

@WiFiWitch OK... And as soon as you "raise the price" for her to get driven you have an interdependent relationship.. She will wean herself soon enough..😷