Do you believe in an afterlife?

I'm honestly torn on the issue. I lost the love of my life to cancer, but we made an agreement before she died. If possible, she would reach out to me, and I would know it's her because we have a word that she'll use. It's been years now, and I've yet to see or hear that word. I've lost confidence that I ever will.

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revenant · F

Yes. Not too long ago one of my grandad, dead when I was a kid..just popped into my mind for unknown reasons.
I asked : show me if you are around..give me a sign..I got 2 that day. I forgot the fist one but the second one surprised me : I received a book that day , I opened at random and first word I read was the town where he was born...a very unknown small town.

Eoghan · 36-40, M

@revenant A quote from one of my favorite films:

"Are you the kind of person who sees signs, or do you see coincidences?"

There are moments here and there that make it hard to believe that there isn't something or someone, as if we're following a script.

revenant · F

@Eoghan perhaps you could ask for something else...a coin...smell of perfume..perhaps she sent you signs and you did not notice
or perhaps she is doing something else somewhere else..

Eoghan · 36-40, M

@revenant I've received some helpful advice today, and I'm going to try a few things. I know if I see or hear that word, my entire life is going to change. I wonder if I'm even ready for something like that.

revenant · F

@Eoghan I really hope you succeed. It is mesmerising when you get signs and sure of course you doubt as to their veracity, just coincidences...

revenant · F

@Eoghan I will give you a tip which always almost works. Take a white piece of paper, unlined.

write 1 1 1 1

Underneath write what you want to say with just a few words.

Sprinkle with cinnamon powder and blow powder outside, garden or anything.

Eoghan · 36-40, M

@revenant I'll try that. I'll wait until after dark, but I'll definitely do it. Thank you!