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What was your biggest issues in each time period (a decade) of your life?

With each 10 years our problems and issues changes. For eg.

1-10 yrs : Feeding I guess.🙂
10-20 : Teenage issues. Controlling parents, Need for freedom. Love, Boyfriend/Girlfriend drama
20-30 : Relationship issues, Unemployment.
30-40 : Family issues, Mortgage, financial issues
40-50 : Teenage children driving you nuts, First signs of health issues, divorce
50-60 : Health issues. Loneliness 😖
60-70 : Many issues...can't remember 🤔

So what was the biggest problems of your life in each decade of your life?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
1-10 yrs : Health issues, school, anxiety
10-20 yrs: Health issues, loneliness, anxiety, school
20-30 yrs: Health issues, sexual frustration, processing trauma, anxiety, lack of adventure, lack of direction in life
Renkon · 36-40, M
@CrazyMusicLover Which famous person inspires you? It gives an hint to where you want to go.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Renkon Oh, all famous people I take note of are very different personalities and have different talents from mine. I must find my own way considering my limits. I feel okay now, I'm able to think bigger than usual, make plans etc. The problem is that I have long episodes when I have just enough energy to go through a day and everything seems too big, too scary and too unsavory to deal with. I suspect it's seasonal depression.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@CrazyMusicLover That sounds like depression. Hope you are looking into remedying those times. Depression can virtually cut a chunk of your living life. So hope you are looking at solutions. Take care my friend.
MadraLaska · 31-35, F
So I do not seem to follow the normal path I think!

Maybe you can say I have relationship issues, I don't have relationships really any more in my life it is too hard for me and is always will go wrong.

I have no worry for things like unemployment and financial issues, I have a good job and side project and always will earn a lot of money so is very comfortable like this.

I don't have children so I don't worry for this is not something I ever want to do, and I still am get on very well with my mother, my brother and my sister so family is ok for me.

I don't feel lonely, I think with work and colleague and friends and family this will always be enough for me.

Health issues, this is maybe the big thing for me but is not age health issues like you say. I have many mental health issues but I know for these and is part of me now and I know how I can best manage this.

But everyone has issue and worry in life, for some is always different things x
Renkon · 36-40, M
@MadraLaska You seem to be in a better place than most.
And you mentioned mental health. I find it more and more common among people. It just clogs the flow of happiness in life, isn't it?

May I ask why you find it hard to have a relationship? Do you find the other person don't have the necessary patients with you?
MadraLaska · 31-35, F
@Renkon Yes there is too many characteristic and requirements from me it makes it so hard for any one to be with me for too long time! I know this now and for me I just have to learn to live life for this way.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@MadraLaska Like attracts like. So I don't think you should compromise your core values.

Sometimes you meet someone who has qualities worthy enough for us to make compromises.

Basically everyone is looking for the perfect person. Rarely exist. Instead look for people with right kind of differences. And a good human being.

You should keep looking, who knows. Also don't miss on those simple joys in life.
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AlyAngel · F
1-10 - an abusive childhood
10-20 - losing my first love
20-30 - surviving a rape
Renkon · 36-40, M
@AlyAngel 🙁...
Hope you aren finding your strength.
SW-User
1 to 10 ...dealing with neglect ..rape ..trauma

10 to 20 ... moved around several times due to family issues ..college ...working

20 to 30 moved and lived abroad ..married ...traveled ...depression and anxiety

30 to present had a child ..stayed at home to raise him ..health issues ..marital issues...depression and anxiety ...
SW-User
@Renkon Thanks but I don't need special accolades
Renkon · 36-40, M
@SW-User Fair enough.

There is this lady who works with me. Her entire life has been a struggle. Marriage was supposed to provide her with some reprieve. It only made everything worse.

She always arrives smiling. She spends each day as if it were her last. She gave up on any hope of a better future. On rare times, she will share this with me.

You reminded me of her for a moment. Take good care of yourself.
SW-User
@Renkon Thank you
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
1-10 yrs : parental divorce; sexual abuse; abandonment
10-20 : having to raise my younger brother; being bullied at school; poverty; learning disorder
20-30 : Rape, relationship issues; suicidal tendencies; eating disorder; health issues
30-40 : Family issues; relationship issues; financial issues
Renkon · 36-40, M
@DearAmbellina2113 What gives you the strength to go through all these? Who supported you most?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Renkon Idk what gives me the strength. I didn't really have any other options.
I don't really have a support system.
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
1-10 My mom
11-20 My mom
21-30 My mom
30-now Losing my grandpa
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
@Renkon still gotta deal with her bullshit now and then, but I manage.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@BarbossasHusband Hmm... You with her? Or near her?
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
@Renkon she lives an hour away
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
1-10: abusive childhood
10-20: abusive teenhood + looking for love elsewhere, getting my heart broken
20-30: borderline symptoms emerge and ruin my life. unemployment, quarter life crisis. Still don't understand how human beings work.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@assemblingaknob Have you found someone?

Every human being wants to be Loved, cared and respected. Very few know how. So they run in circles and circles. Some are lucky. Some not. At the end of the day, when we put down our masks we are just another human being hoping that next day is better. That we find what we are looking for.
Torsten · 36-40, M
1-10- living with pedophiles and all the shit that happened due to them
10-20- found guilty of two counts of grievous bodily harm
20-30- family court
30-40- family health issues
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Torsten Is it looking ok now?
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Renkon still in my 30's
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Torsten Ok. Keep fighting. Hope you find peace.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Life threatening health issues
Figuring out how to fit in
Figuring out my career
Figuring out people
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Muthafukajones Have you found it?
fakable · T
1-10: no fap
10-60: fap
60-70: no fap
1-10: best years.
11-20: Depression. Abandonment.
21-30: Depression. Drugs. Alchohlism.
31-40: Motherhood. Marriage. Depression.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@V00doo Hope you are staying strong. I believe you have the strength to pull through.

 
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