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Just entered 30 and Ive lost my passion for life. Is there better moving forward?
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I have been where you are, so I understand how you’re feeling and your outlook on the work right now.
You are going to be ok. You have so much life ahead of you. Our lives change in seconds. You could die tonight. You could meet the love of your life tomorrow. You could make a new best friend at the grocery store next week. You could stumble across an awesome new opportunity that changes your whole life any second. You literally never know what each day holds. The secret is, don’t worry about it. Just let life be. Let yourself be. Once you relax and learn to be happy with what you are and what is, all those things you’re desperately longing for and chasing will finally come to you. Right now, you’re constantly analyzing everything….you’re looking and looking, and doubting. You’ve just got to take a step back and let things be. You can’t even see the good if you’re constantly analyzing and doubting it. If there’s something you’re unhappy with, how can you make it better. Make a list. Make that list into actions. Fix one thing at a time. If it’s nothing you can change, let it go. Just focus each day and being your best self, someone you love and can respect when you look in the mirror. Focus each day on what you could do that day to make yourself or someone you know happy. A hike? Go eat some place new? A convert? Bake a friend a cake? Volunteer somewhere? Try a new hobby? Make the most of each day, and yourself, and let everything else come to you as it will. First and foremost you just have to be happy with yourself. And don’t go to your ‘consultant’ anymore. Find a new one or learn to listen to yourself and navigate your own thoughts. After 8 years, it sounds like this one you’ve been seeing has not helped you. I wish you all the best.
You are going to be ok. You have so much life ahead of you. Our lives change in seconds. You could die tonight. You could meet the love of your life tomorrow. You could make a new best friend at the grocery store next week. You could stumble across an awesome new opportunity that changes your whole life any second. You literally never know what each day holds. The secret is, don’t worry about it. Just let life be. Let yourself be. Once you relax and learn to be happy with what you are and what is, all those things you’re desperately longing for and chasing will finally come to you. Right now, you’re constantly analyzing everything….you’re looking and looking, and doubting. You’ve just got to take a step back and let things be. You can’t even see the good if you’re constantly analyzing and doubting it. If there’s something you’re unhappy with, how can you make it better. Make a list. Make that list into actions. Fix one thing at a time. If it’s nothing you can change, let it go. Just focus each day and being your best self, someone you love and can respect when you look in the mirror. Focus each day on what you could do that day to make yourself or someone you know happy. A hike? Go eat some place new? A convert? Bake a friend a cake? Volunteer somewhere? Try a new hobby? Make the most of each day, and yourself, and let everything else come to you as it will. First and foremost you just have to be happy with yourself. And don’t go to your ‘consultant’ anymore. Find a new one or learn to listen to yourself and navigate your own thoughts. After 8 years, it sounds like this one you’ve been seeing has not helped you. I wish you all the best.
A lot of times what makes us sick is our environment. The people and community can just not be supportive at all and drive us to all kinds of sickness.
I actually felt this post cause I feel behind a lot of my peers as well. But I'm just going at my own pace. It's not a race after all. I am also single and feel alone as well and since I live in the middle of nowhere it's hard to meet people. So all I really have is the internet to find friends. But because of that they are using in person people. So yeah it sucks.
I actually felt this post cause I feel behind a lot of my peers as well. But I'm just going at my own pace. It's not a race after all. I am also single and feel alone as well and since I live in the middle of nowhere it's hard to meet people. So all I really have is the internet to find friends. But because of that they are using in person people. So yeah it sucks.
Fullofwisdom · 22-25New
There is a God- who loves you so much he sent his ONLY Son Jesus Christ to the world, whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have EVERLASTING LIFE. doesn’t everlasting life sound delightful? I believe in Christ and he has changed my character from being hateful to being full of love and happy with life. Believing in Christ has changed my attitude in all things. Peace to you, friend.
Budwick · 70-79, M
Hi Sunshine -- You keep looking for others too fix your problems.
That ain't gonna happen.
You are responsible for your own happiness.
That ain't gonna happen.
You are responsible for your own happiness.
Don’t give up life will get better trust it will the era is just beginning
babyboy42 · 41-45, M
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babyboy42 · 41-45, M
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reubles · 41-45, M
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