Im stuck and idk what to do but i dont want to leave him

Okay sl he thinks he can boss me and tell me what to do but get mad at me if i cant do it right then and there ans will treat me sun type of way then he tells me oh baby i just get on there to do streaks but then i hear him take snaps ans text half of the time then he will tell me to gts whole he stays up for 3 more hours on snap and tiktok and he stopped letting me come over n hes being really moody and mean to me lately idk what to do abt it

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collin · M

it is easier said than done, but communication is the best way to solve this. you need to tell him how you feel about what he's doing, so he can realize his mistakes and communicate to you what his feelings are too

Yallcantknow · 16-17, F

@collin cant talk to him abt it bc he eill turn jt around on me and stary blaming me fir stuff but now im iver thinking big time bc i was told this girl trying to go to his house to see what he all abt somee timee this weekend n he told me he loved me then said he gotta use the bathroom then he cut his camera off n became active on snap i have very bad trust issues bc of him and i over think abt every little thing

collin · M

@Yallcantknow it wouldn't hurt to try. if he keeps acting like that, it would be time to consider leaving him. he doesn't seem like he's fully committed to your relationship

Yallcantknow · 16-17, F

[@zoraln] ig but now all he doing is keeping himself muted n now im over thinking again then I caught him saying he was gunna shower then it would hang up n he would be active on snap and other shit then I'd say you u hang up he would be like I'm listening to music then he will say ok I'm actually getting in the shower then the call would last

Yallcantknow · 16-17, F

@collin he just turned his camera on then really quickly turned it off then git on snap which im not supposed to have but i do n i can see that hes clearly active while still muted with that camera off

collin · M

@Yallcantknow i know it might seem useless but please try to talk to him. not through call but through text

Yallcantknow · 16-17, F

@collin be wont let me come n see him its been 11 days since he let me come see him n now i thibk hes only gunna ket me come see him bc i bought him stuff in it should be coming soon