I shouldn't have to feel obligated to feel bad if anyone has a problem with how I live my life.

They're free to leave, go away, any time. One less person for me to deal with.

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Jonjdw · 51-55, M

I don’t think so. The only thing I would as have always done. Is think about what they say and see if the have a point. But even if they do have a point or not doesn’t matter because we can live our own lives.

Another question it says the last person you commented on here there message was deleted ever be deleted it or that is a person that blocked me. I’m just curious if they did delete their message

minxy · 51-55, F

@Jonjdw Right, living my own life instead of feeling obligated to feel bad if they have a problem. They can leave at any time.

They didn't delete the message.

SW-User

Yes, and I'd encourage you to find those who support you, instead of judge or ridicule, but their concern may be poorly spoken?

minxy · 51-55, F

@SW-User I'm not in need to seek out those who support me. I'm not seeking out those who judge or ridicule either.

SW-User

@minxy Then don't, just don't live a life lonely in vain of pursuit of proving something. There's always a catch-22 in anything. I don't trade my individuality, self-respect to beg of others, yet have learned humility, and my yearnings are not so different from others.

minxy · 51-55, F

@SW-User
All I'm simply, ever so simply saying is that if a person has a problem with how I choose to live my life (not proving anything, just living) I don't have to feel bad that they feel that way and they don't have to stick around, continuing to have that problem.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

Not giving a shit about what other people think is a very effective coping mechanism.

minxy · 51-55, F

@DunningKruger True, it's too bad that doing what you said is near impossible, in general.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@minxy It does take some practice.

minxy · 51-55, F

@DunningKruger or it's what I just said.

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