Do you think I will regret not having children and never being married when I get older (regardless how old)?

Would you regret it?

Mind you, I'm a woman and don't have any nieces or nephews. Also, my mom is gone and my family is only growing smaller over the years.

My current boyfriend doesn't have children either and isn't keen on the idea of marriage.

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blindbob · 41-45

If you have to ask the question, then you probably will. My friends who don't want kids get annoyed by that question.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@blindbob That's probably the best answer. I've never asked this question before, but I've definitely never thought of that response.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@blindbob Having step children wouldn't bother me either. I think I primarily care about having family ans relationships regardless if they're my own children. Actually, it's probably normal to want to have relationships. I just can't afford children.

bijouxbroussard · F

@blindbob That’s my experience with friends, too. Those who don’t want children are certain about it.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@bijouxbroussard What about simply not getting married with no children?

bijouxbroussard · F

@perceptivei That’s definitely an option, and nothing is wrong with it. But I will offer one piece of advice: if you do think you might want to marry and have children, don’t waste too much of your time with someone who has stated that isn’t what he wants. A common mistake women make is thinking they’ll change a guy’s mind.