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Sassychick420 · 31-35, F
Honestly I gave up on the hopes I would get married. But then I met an amazing man. We are getting married in April

I am married - though I want a divorce.

A couple of years ago, I thought that, once I get out of here, I would never marry again. I've been through too much pain and trauma to get to this point.

Well... it turns out that I just needed a lot of time and patience and I just might consider marrying again under the right conditions.
FurryFace · 61-69, M
@HootyTheNightOwl ok fine shut up now , lol
@FurryFace Hahaha... but I'm confused now... 🤪🤪🤪
FurryFace · 61-69, M
@HootyTheNightOwl oh now you're confused ? , you were doing great in our little debate , i was slowly losing , even though i had some grounds
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I don't think about it because I've never even been in a serious relationship. I was at two weddings in last two years and didn't feel any desire to go through that. I'm still at the stage where I need to tidy up in my head before I could drag someone else into my life. So it's a pretty abstract idea to me.
As long as you’re happy, that’s what really counts. When I was widowed and lost my son, some people "comforted" me by telling me I’d marry again, have other children. I remember wondering how they could possibly know that.
And it didn’t happen. Sometimes I think "what if?" but I don’t let those thoughts linger for long.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard it's better to not to think what if...
I think it only makes you feel regret.
What happened must have been very very painful and I'm so sorry for your losses...
I hope that time has eased your pain, but I also hope the years since have been happier.
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@Mellowgirl Yes, thank you, I have had many happy times since. But I had to learn that enjoying the remainder of my life isn’t being disloyal. 😔
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
I don't have tons of friends and I am socially awkward. I never thought I'd marry but I have been twice but unfortunately I divorced twice too.

I have been the happiest I've ever been in lots of ways but always felt like that final piece was missing. After 9 months of getting nowhere with Dating someone fell into my lap about 3 weeks ago.

If I were to say all the things I wanted in a woman to be my partner or wife then she'd nail 99.9% of them. I feel so lucky to have met her. I am fairly certain that she will be the third time lucky.
Digoutyoursoul · 31-35, F
No one know what the future is for any of us. I was with my ex for seven years until he left and we have a four year old son he never sees. Live your life, don't dwell on the 'what ifs'. You can never tell what might happen.
Lilymoon · F
I'm on marriage number 2. so far so good. It does take work though from both sides. 🤷‍♀️
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
My first marriage has cost almost mine and my son´s life and so I wouldn´t marry again. Never ever.
Krysclear · 31-35, F
Never again for me. After one very unsuccessful attempt
FurryFace · 61-69, M
kinda but i want only a few people there and i want it to be fast or maybe a drive through wedding , lol
perceptivei · 36-40, F
Not after seeing true beauty.
SW-User
It's not something I'd do again
SW-User
yes I would like to get married
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
I am married already.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I do. I did once, and I'd like to again.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 I hope you meet your person so you can get married again. Long may it last too.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Mellowgirl I believe that I have met her. Time will tell.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 good luck
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