I'd like to have a serious answer on this, please. I think it would be most interesting to know your most valuable piece of information in life.

What would that be, that you could pass on to others, perhaps? What has been the most valuable thing you know, in your life?

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DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F Best Comment

A hard lesson I had to learn. You cannot assume people are capable of experiencing the same thoughts, reasoning, and change that you are just because you are.

Another difficult lesson I had to learn was to stop trying to see the good in others and see people for who they are. Sometimes we give certain people too many chances because we pity them or their upbringing or their addiction. When in reality some people are just inherently evil and some of us fail to grasp that concept because we are not capable of that same evil and reasoning. Some people don't commit certain acts because they had a difficult upbringing, or drink too much or do drugs. SOME PEOPLE ARE EVIL

pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

@DeluxedEdition you jut give me a hard lesson

LadyGrace ·

@DeluxedEdition I think that's a very wise conclusion. I enjoyed reading your thoughts, very much. I've had to learn those things too, and some things I still work on. For example, I enjoy thinking the best of others, but as you mentioned, that's not realistic.

I especially love your first paragraph. That's very honest and true. I can't tell you how much I appreciate what you've shared. It's very important. I'm still working on myself, regarding certain things. I believe life is a series of adjustments until we cross over. I believe it has to be that way, because otherwise without challenges, we would never learn and grow. We would never mature, as well. Some people call them problems. I called them challenges, because they are not there to hurt us, but to signal us that something is not working for us in our lives and needs to be changed, so we can live healthier and happier lives.

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@LadyGrace Why thank you! I always enjoy your posts. 🙂❤️ I think we all will be working on ourselves until we pass away. I like to view our challenges as learning opportunities and metals of strength and courage. Sometimes we are able to help others through the experiences of our challenges. If my challenge caused me to help 10 people it was a blessing for all of us ❤️

LadyGrace ·

@DeluxedEdition I feel exactly the same. I try to use my experiences to help others every chance I get. And yes, if it helps even one person, what a great blessing that is. You are a blessing to me. Thank you so much and I'm sure many others will use your example to succeed in life. You are truly a blessing to God and that means everything. Thank you for this great contribution. And thank you for saying you enjoy my posts. I sure appreciate that.

Driver2 · M

@DeluxedEdition excellent point