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I hope you get the help you need ...

I won't mention this users name ...they blocked me ...not really sure why as i thought they were a friend..this person is dealing with alot of pain and sadness and going down a dark road ...I just wish them well and hope they find their way to better times ....take care ....i also realize they won't see this unless they are using their alt ...so ...yeah....
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Between ep and sw ..I'm finding myself slowly desensitized by all this ..not that I don't care ..I just don't allow myself to get too engrossed with others on here anymore ...it's absolutely pointless...this place is a revolving door . People have all kinds of things they are trying to deal with ...i get it ...i really do ...one minute you're the best thing since sliced bread the next you're blocked ...so my expectations of others on here don't exist ....it's better this way ..
Just saying * shrugs*
CestManan · 46-50, F
@SW-User I just assume sooner or later people are going to block. I usually don't even notice until I log into my ALT account just to see what the deleted messages were and it's like, oh yeah I remember that person. People block because it's their little way of getting even for not having a social life in real life
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@CestManan people block for different reasons ...
CestManan · 46-50, F
@SW-User sometimes though it's just their way of throwing a tantrum.
Reject · 26-30, M
It happens. I can’t count how many times I found myself wishing someone who blocked me well. They’re losing a lot more than me with that decision.
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@Reject It's all good ...Eventually I find that I feel far removed
Miram · 31-35, F
You know, I once had this same thought about my brother because he pushed me away after certain event.

I was like "it is not his fault. He must be struggling a lot with all his feels"

Next thing that happened was message from my cousin , a selfie with my brother in the background inbetween two women like sammich dancing and getting wasted.

He was in the feels for sure.

And then I stopped thinking everyone who is seemingly struggling is actually struggling. Some really handle it better than we think.
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@Miram idk ...it's ok ... after a while I start to feel far removed..
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Just so you know. You're amazing. I love your sense of humor.

Thing is we can't always control the variables. To each their own. You're doing the right thing.
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@Beatbox34 Thanks ..kind of you to say
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CestManan · 46-50, F
I've never had an actual friend on here block me. A lot of people I don't know and a lot of people I didn't like anyway but never a friend
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@CestManan it happens
SW-User
You can't do much for someone if they don't want to be helped and cut everyone off. I have played that game before and to be honest it's better just to let them go if they want to go.
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@SW-User I know . I let people go all the time ...It's more to do with what is going on with them than me ...I get it
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@SW-User Yes, I saw that in your post, that it was more about them than you. You are being very generous in your approach.
SW-User
@SW-User There is no other way for me to be ...they aren't a bad person..
Just lost ...and I just hope they can find their way back
SW-User
That’s just normal here. You’ll get blocked no matter how hard you try to be a good online friend.
SW-User
@SW-User meh ...I'm not trying that hard
Lemony1199 · F
Unfortunately this is so true here.
No regrets!
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@Lemony1199 it is what it is
Ferric67 · M
For what it's worth, I'd never block you cherny
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@Ferric67 Thank you ...that's kind
fun4us2b · M
Trying to make sense of it -

I know how it feels to just shutdown - and sometimes shut out others that want to help...

I guess this happens because we know what has to be done - and talking about it just isn't making it easier right now...so we stop talking

I know you understand - but understanding doesn't cure the loss of a friendship.
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@SW-User not saying
SW-User
There are so many on here like this at the moment it's very sad really

Sorry your friend blocked you☹️😞
SW-User
@SW-User It's ok... it happens .. Just hope they get their shit together
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they are reading it rn, don’t worry
SW-User
@deathfairy it is what it is
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am sorry this happened. It sucks, I know this from experience.

 
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