Why can't some people see fault in themselves? Or why are they unable to admit it?

@SW-User I don't understand why that is worse than ignoring it and/or hurting others

@caccoon oh it's not done in awareness. It's their subconscious. Blaming others comes from a deep belief of feeling like a victim. Until their perspectives change they can't see their own illusions.

@SW-User I wonder if I'm doing it without knowing, too?

How do you think we can become aware?

@caccoon I know I was doing it for a long time. And I believe to various extents everyone does it until they get conscious of it.
Think of the people who really trigger you or annoy you or you find them deserving of your anger or hate or something like that.
Then list down what about them exactly bothers you. Break it down in points and see it from a detached perspective if you can.
Then against that list... identify what feeling in you their attribute is triggering or trying to come into awareness.

All these triggers for us are things we need to identify in ourselves, heal and integrate.

If you are interested in it further...this work is called Shadow Work.

Would you like to be my new online psychologist 😏 @SW-User

@SW-User is there something you wish you say to me directly?

Not at the moment but when the need arises ,I’ll be sure to let you know ☺️@SW-User