When I see this posted about certain people , it angers me so much

SW-User · 2022-10-08T07:02:46-04:00

Life - When I see this posted about certain people , it angers me so much (Quote) It does not... (34 replies).

"THEY WERE ALWAYS NICE/KIND TO ME"

It does not vindicate the person and you're belittling the experience or trauma that others may have experienced, you're high and mighty opinions are traumatising to others, so maybe hold up and think before you go around spouting how such and such a person was always lovely/kind or whatever, or how their illness excuses their behaviour.

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HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

It baffles me how they need to add their useless two cents, like okay they were nice to me and I was nice to them back but when I see someone talking about their negative experience with them I won't say it, it sounds like I'm defending them or not believing the victims. It's like how every time when a criminal is exposed and the neighbours are all like "But they seemed like such a nice person and never caused problems!". Accept that people are not one sided and let others speak without getting in the way for once.

SW-User

@HannibalAteMeOut perfectly said, and they chastise those who want to speak out, it's really appalling