If someone has been nice to me but there are people who have finally felt strong and brave enough to talk about their trauma and experience, I am NEVER going to defend that person. However, I am not gonna start calling them names just to fit in either. If it's who I'm thinking of that you are talking about, I've seen people who have no evidence and who used to be that person's friends, trashing them. Let the victims share their experience, do not doubt them but stop pretending to be one of those who knew all along cause you're not and I know it. That's what pisses me off (about those people). No, you didn't know, just admit that you were wrong about them and shut up.
Also, let's not forget that people on this site are willing to forgive and forget ANYTHING as long as it's someone popular/someone their clique likes. So the whole "tHeY wErE aLwAyS nIcE tO mE" gets even more complicated and toxic then.
