how do you help someone not be afraid if you dont understand what they are afraid of?
as an example:
I will get in front of any audience and give a fully improvised 30 minute speech at a moments notice without any preparation (ok.. its a bit of an exaggeration, but not much)
many people wont do that, or will perhaps even be reduced to dribbling stammers if they get put on the spot like that.
I just dont get that, but at least I recognize that I dont understand that fear.
but it also means that I dont think I can help... because 'just do it' (which is what I do) wont work for them
I will get in front of any audience and give a fully improvised 30 minute speech at a moments notice without any preparation (ok.. its a bit of an exaggeration, but not much)
many people wont do that, or will perhaps even be reduced to dribbling stammers if they get put on the spot like that.
I just dont get that, but at least I recognize that I dont understand that fear.
but it also means that I dont think I can help... because 'just do it' (which is what I do) wont work for them
