I don't get why my friends keep getting married and having babies.

I get that the human race needs to continue, but why do people feel the need to have a family and all that? Am I just missing something? I have no desire to be in a relationship or even have sex or any of that. I just keep getting the feeling that life is just dull and pointless and the only way to be remembered is in the arts or making some significant contribution to science. I don't think I can do that if I have feelings for anyone. It would just get in the way.

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WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

To each their own

I used to think I didn’t want kids… then one day… something shifted. I just felt a pull… even through fear of fucking it all up

I love my children so much. I couldn’t live without them

AlyAngel · F

@WaryWitchWandering same here

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

@WaryWitchWandering Good for you. I like when I teach them and then they go home at 4:00 and I don't have to feed them or buy them clothes and stuff. I kind of get why people would want to have kids, I mean kids are fun. I really think being responsible for their education is far enough. I couldn't imagine being responsible for things they do at home. I mean have you seen how much a teenager can eat? Hats off to you guys.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@MrSmooTh you would have to meet your newborn baby to understand exactly what I mean… maybe it’s different for men (and some women)

It’s insane seeing them, they snuggle right into your chest immediately and it’s just the craziest feeling I’ve ever experienced

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@MrSmooTh i will love them through everything. I just want them to be happy/adjusted and I try my best ☺️

My kids know I love them. I know they love me. It’s unconditional… no doubt. It’s a beautiful bond

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

@WaryWitchWandering I just can't have anything like that. I just can't share my space with anyone. I always just end up pushing them out of it. I've just accepted that is the way I am and I'm ok with it.