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Out living our ancestors

This week I passed a significant milestone. I passed the age my dad died at. I'd had the date in my head for some time.

My dad outlived my uncle by a couple of months. Looking back over our family tree no male antecedent had made it as far as dad. Grandad, greet uncles, great great grandads etc all gone often well before the 59 years 10 months and 4 days dad got to.

My late cousin made 62 before he sadly passed away from cancer early in the covid-19 lockdown. My brother is setting a family all comers record now above 63 despite his internal defib causing some hospitalisations.

Now I'm passed Dad it is weird - how the hell have I managed to get here?

As they say "carpe diem".
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Where did I go wrong? My father almost made it to 90 - - a couple of months short -- and my mother to 92. Wasn't that unusual in either family. They all lived hard, active lives in agriculture. My sisters never made it past infancy. My brother didn't make it to 80. I'm 82, but my prognosis of making it to 90 is a long shot at best. Oh, but we loved those adrenaline-producing stressful careers we had.