The longer I live without a family or partner, the more I like it.

Sure I still get sad and lonely, and maybe it’s sad to need to accept that no one wants us. But it feels better in the waking hours these days because the more experience I have in contrary of love/family dynamics, the more experienced I am without. And the better I feel on my own. I’m open to deeper love, but I cannot put my hope into something that has left me broken over and over again.

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Teslin · M

I have found that when I went out "looking" for a partner, for lack of better term, it was usually a disaster 😅.
When it happened naturally, the results were much better.
Let it happen naturally.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@Teslin my last bf happened naturally then he killed himself

Teslin · M

@RebelFox So sorry to hear this !!

goodlil666 · 51-55, M

I must say , I know exactly what you mean. Yes it would be nice to share somethings with another person at times but the longer I am alone the less tolerant I become of BS. I know what I want and what I don't want . I am better off alone than in a corrosive , toxic relationship. I am comfortable in my own skin and don't seek or need anyone's approval or opinion.

TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

I am getting much more comfortable away from others aw well actually

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TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

I couldn’t agree more :)
Me and my pup do just fine :P @RebelFox

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@TheotherAndy And see that’s what I find attractive nowadays! Someone that doesn’t fkn neeeeeeed me so much. Like you’re happy doing your own thing and not expecting someone to make life better for you 🖤🖤 beautiful

TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

Thanks! My life might not always be perfect, but it’s mine. Like you, company is nice sometimes @RebelFox

being · 36-40, F

I need to try that too at one point. I think that to retreat is a very valuable stage of healing

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

One good part maybe you never have to help anyone move.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@Dainbramadge yeah it’s great right

Bang5luts · M

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SW-User

I think so many of us women as we get older realise that we don't have the energy left for a non equal partnership

You are still young though, so good luck whatever may come 😊

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User I truly don’t. I’m tired of giving to someone who gobbles it up and never returns the passion. I’d really rather take care of myself and my son alone, without a drain on my heart 🖤

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