Why does a non binary have a bf?

Okay ... This might seem like it's out of the blue because we've never interacted on here before, but it doesn't seem like you and he are at the same stage in life. And that is a recipe for disaster.

Him going off to finish school is a good thing. Let him go. Get your place. If and when he finishes school, give him the freedom and the space to launch himself into life. If he does, great. If he doesn't, then don't let him drag you backwards. Right?

Sounds like you have outgrown him.

I think your decisions are reasonable and thought out. You need to remain independent. Certainly no point in moving for four months. Becoming independent is important and at your age you should be. Good luck. If it is meant to be your bf will still be around in four months or not as the case maybe.

If he is in a therapy session and you are on the nintendo, sounds like you got the better deal! 🤣