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Just a little life update

I spent the weekend with bf, didn't go as well as I wanted it too but it didn't go bad either. Bf was extra rude to me in a Walmart yesterday, but when he asked me how much longer I would hold on to him and I said "not much longer if you keep treating me like this" he smartened up. Then his dad was fed up with his mood and lost his shit yesterday, which was not fun, but we ended up making the rest of the day good, even though he is not talking to his dad right now. He is currently in his therapy session, and I'm just sitting outside with my Nintendo switch.

We talked about the future, because he has to go back to in person school for four months (he graduates after that), and I'm not willing to move there with him for four months just to move back because he doesn't want to stay there, also it's just stupid to bring all of our furniture 5 hours away just to bring it back in four months!! So he is renting a fully furnished room in a house with his friends, and I am going to find an apartment in Toronto that I can afford by myself, but could fit both of us in the future.

I don't know if we will get to the point of him moving in with me, but that is why it's so essential that I get a place I can afford on my own for more than just the 4 months. I'm going to write my learners permit on Wednesday, and bc I already had it and let it expire, I dont need to wait for a year before I take the next test ! And then hopefully I'll be able to buy a car and drive before I move !! I'm getting my license regardless, because I don't know if I can afford rent and car insurance and gas and everything by myself on a not very great wage 😅 but I'm becoming hopeful. I'm very excited to gain some independence.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Okay ... This might seem like it's out of the blue because we've never interacted on here before, but it doesn't seem like you and he are at the same stage in life. And that is a recipe for disaster.

Him going off to finish school is a good thing. Let him go. Get your place. If and when he finishes school, give him the freedom and the space to launch himself into life. If he does, great. If he doesn't, then don't let him drag you backwards. Right?
Wol62 · 51-55, M
Sounds like you have outgrown him.
smallbees · 26-30
@Wol62 maybe a little, I'm giving him a little time so see if he'll catch up.
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@smallbees Hope he does, for his sake.
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
I think your decisions are reasonable and thought out. You need to remain independent. Certainly no point in moving for four months. Becoming independent is important and at your age you should be. Good luck. If it is meant to be your bf will still be around in four months or not as the case maybe.
Wol62 · 51-55, M
If he is in a therapy session and you are on the nintendo, sounds like you got the better deal! 🤣
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Why does a non binary have a bf?
smallbees · 26-30
@MasterLee gender and sexuality are two different things ! I'm non-binary, but I am attracted to people of all sex/genders. 😊

 
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