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Yet another partner who left me because of my crazy life.

She claimed that our relationship was too boring, that she needed "a bit of spice and chaoes," oh and she didn't like that I told her my brother would be living with me when I moved out.

I know she has every right not to accept this, but it's always the same BS for me. Someone else is always better and my life is always too much for me when they realise they can't "fix my problems" by themselves. They lost their pet project and had enough. 馃馃馃馃
WhateverWorks36-40
Good riddance. You鈥檙e not a project. Supportive and encouraging is one thing, but you鈥檙e not Play-Doh.
ArminArlert22-25, M
@WhateverWorks I agree. I'm not sure why I keep falling into this trap with people I date.
WhateverWorks36-40
Sometimes controlling people wear 鈥榟elper鈥 masks, but it only becomes apparent when the helpfulness leads to treating you badly, which is not helpful at all @ArminArlert
nightjourney31-35, F
It was never meant to be then. If she trully loved u she wudv'e excepted ur life as well
Leggs46-50, F
@ShadowfireTheSarcastic That is God's honest truth.

Folks, it is like this -
Some people do not see a romantic partner as an equal, lover, whatever. They see him or her as a project.
I cannot really add anything that the meme hasn't said, a picture is worth 1,000 words.
ArminArlert22-25, M
@Leggs I agree. The person I was dating constantly spoke about her ex and I'm convinced that she was addicted to her ex/toxitity.

When she spoke about me, it was always things I didn't do. I don't have enough friends, I'll lean on her too much, I don't have any hobbies.

 
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