What are the signs someone doesn't want to have anything to do with me?

@SumKindaMunster And if someone doesn't like me now, what are the chances that he changes his mind if I change?

@LillyJulia I sincerely don't know sweetheart. I would say its never a good idea to like someone more than they like you, that's not a good dynamic and you are setting yourself up for heartache.

@SumKindaMunster Thank you! I was talking about a lecturer at my uni criticizes me constantly. I find his critique very helpful, but it's like 90% of the time. But, despite that, he always finds time for me. How to see if his critique is constructive critisism or if I'm just getting on his nerves?I would like to ask him for help with an application but kinda have a feeling it would disturb him and he wants me to stop contacting him. Do you thin I should write him? ( I just posted the question as well)

@LillyJulia Oh this is a professor at uni? I thought it was someone you were romantically interested in.

Yes I would approach him for help, if he is paying attention to you and critiquing you, I would speculate he would be interested in helping you further. If he isn't interested or doesn't' have time, I am sure he will let you down gently.

Good luck! 🤗

@SumKindaMunster i wrote him and he ignored me... 😔

@LillyJulia Maybe he just hasn't gotten back to you yet....😔