Are you a fair weather friend ?

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

No but I am not making myself available to be dumped on either and then left with no support when I need it.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@iamonfire696 wise choice

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@GJOFJ3 sometimes we just have to do it to protect ourselves as much as it kills me inside

SW-User

@iamonfire696 I understand that
That's happened to me too quite a bit actually

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I am sorry it’s happened to you too. It’s a shitty feeling.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 it makes me so tired if people and I want to retreat

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I feel that way too. I know I shouldn’t but I always wonder about my worth because I was there for my friend when they needed me but when I needed a friend I wasn’t good enough to support. I don’t like people at times.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 I don't like people very much right now ...people can be cruel and heartless and selfish and I'm tired of it

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I agree with you there. I get it that no one is perfect but when people go out of their way to hurt someone, it’s not acceptable to me. I hope that you will feel better in time 💕.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 I don't expect perfection in anyone
..but cruelty is something that I won't tolerate
Thanks ...❤️

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I don’t either. At least your friend has shown their true colours so you won’t be wasting anymore time on them. If there is something to be seen as a positive, it is that.