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Are you a fair weather friend ?

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SW-User

I am like a lighthouse. I'm here all the time but people only really seek me out when they need something.

SW-User

@SW-User I don't seek anyone out for anything

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I’ll admit when it’s one crises after another over stupid thingd I get aggravated and bail. If it’s actual serious I’m there no matter what.

SW-User

@Keepitsimple I understand that ...it gets old

RebelFox · 36-40, F

I used to be the one everyone dumped on, I’ve heard more complaining than I ever care to again. And if I was having a rough time, nobody had time for me.

It still works out like that sometimes, but I’ve learned to not need people, especially if being around them makes me feel stressed out. I just take care of my own and when I hear from people I’m careful.

SW-User

@RebelFox I can relate ...you are better off

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User it’d be nice to have someone to trust, but it’s also nice to trust yourself 🖤

SW-User

@RebelFox yes of course ..I'd love to be able to trust people more ..I just never will

Wol62 · 51-55, M

Only on SW

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Wol62 · 51-55, M

@SW-User Honest.

Wol62 · 51-55, M

@SW-User Though I am not as aggressive as you.

SW-User

@Wol62 I didn't know I was being aggressive

Dusty101 · F

No, I'm always there for my friend in times of difficulty!

Iwillwait · M

No. I'll be there when you're at your worse.

antonioioio · 70-79, M

I don't know
I let my friends be the judge 😊

1234567890a

If someone is expecting something from me that I can’t give then yes. They will treat you with contempt because you won’t give that thing they want.

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1234567890a

@SW-User it’s hard to tell anymore.

SW-User

@1234567890a yes it is

1234567890a

@SW-User I’m doing the best I can do. I haven’t left yet.

ShadowWorker · 61-69, F

No.

summersong · F

No, but I probably seem that way to some because I am not great at friendship maintenance 😞

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

No I actually like to get real friendly during a good thunderstorm

SW-User

@GJOFJ3 not that kind of friend

Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M

Actually no. I’m good in times of crisis.

SW-User

@Harmonium1923 That's rare ,especially these days .
Your friends are lucky to have you

billstickers · 36-40, M

Sadly yes as not a fan of drama 🤣

SW-User

@billstickers im not a fan either

SW-User

I am now. Learned from the best.

SW-User

@SW-User most people on here tend to be so it doesn't surprise me

Magenta · F

No, I'm not a fair weather anything.

Coppercoil · M

*flies away*

SW-User

@Coppercoil not surprised

Riemann · 31-35, M

I Try not 2 b

submissivelittlewoman · F

Nope…

BackyardShaman · 61-69, M

wackidywack · 22-25

Notladylike

No I just probably don’t put enough effort in. People always come to me when in crisis though so hopefully that makes up for it.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

No but I am not making myself available to be dumped on either and then left with no support when I need it.

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I agree with you there. I get it that no one is perfect but when people go out of their way to hurt someone, it’s not acceptable to me. I hope that you will feel better in time 💕.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 I don't expect perfection in anyone
..but cruelty is something that I won't tolerate
Thanks ...❤️

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I don’t either. At least your friend has shown their true colours so you won’t be wasting anymore time on them. If there is something to be seen as a positive, it is that.

V00doo

I try not to be.

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