In my early 20s and teens, all the people that insulted me I wanted to push them down stairs, and now when people insult I just oh another dumbass.

I think both. The ultimate evolution

{@junejames2003]😄 what you are talking about sounds very familiar you are right i know from experience where you are coming from . you are right as you get older you do mature and mellow and do not tyake stuff quiety as persaonally

It's a combination of things, including the ability to control your anger long enough to consider, "Is this jerk worth going to jail for assault or even manslaughter?"

If it helps, I imagine having the people I hate ten feet below or transferred in the most desolate locations away from me.

Creative mind and all.

We need to let the anger out somehow.

I think it might be, but honestly you probably do still want to push them down the stairs sometimes as long as you don't everything's fine...🤪

yes, you are getting more mature. did you push people down the stairs often as a teen:????🍪

No. You did not.