Being Fat Sucks!!!!!!

I hate being fat, not only am i forced to spend the rest of my life alone whilst my friends start families, but i get called fat alot when i am out doing shopping, i am so sick of i've had it all my life xxx

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helenS · 36-40, F

If you are really tired of being fat, it will take you six months where you count each and every calorie, and your problem will be gone.
There will come a day when you start seeing your own toes on the weighing scale.

woody50 · 51-55, M

@helenS looks size makes no difference
Personally is what counts

helenS · 36-40, F

@woody50 That's a nice point of view but I really think looks matter. Especially for most of you guys because you are such visual beings! 😏

woody50 · 51-55, M

@helenS which would you want a thin person with poor personality or bigger person with greater personality
Everyone looks will change
Personality does not really change if that makes sense

helenS · 36-40, F

@woody50 As for women, I couldn't care less.
Regarding men, I like a certain dominant physical expression, especially facial expression. I don't mind some belly on a man. I like male body hair because, to me, it's an expression of masculinity.
Apart from that, I like well-educated men.

woody50 · 51-55, M

@helenS can I pm you

helenS · 36-40, F

@woody50 Yes of course, if you want to. Thanks for asking, that's quite unusual I have to say. But I'm working at the moment, so I won't have much time for a chat; just so you know.

woody50 · 51-55, M

@helenS sent you message
Chat Later I have to go now

Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F

@helenS

If you are really tired of being fat

I know your reply means well, but this is part of the problem. This statement. The post alone clearly shows she is and that statement devalues her desire to better herself. It makes people like us feel like no one believes we can be unhappy about our size. It tells us that we are truly not taken seriously or understood in our struggle.

Statements like this set people up to fail before they even get started.

helenS · 36-40, F

@Pinkstarburst Sorry I just wanted to help.

Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F

@helenS Oh my gosh I know! I just wanted to point it out. I absolutely know you have the best intentions! Truly!

helenS · 36-40, F

@Pinkstarburst thank you 🌷

HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M

@woody50 Every sociological and psychological study of this subject demonstrates that in general, couples are approximately equally attractive.

There usually are not great disparities in attractiveness between partners in a relationship.

Obviously there are exceptions.

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

@woody50 being overweight like that is really hard on your heart and if you want to live a long and healthy life you need to be at a healthy weight

woody50 · 51-55, M

@Jenny1234 I agree losing weight is good just do it for right reasons because the lady want 6o do it for herself
What I don't agree with is female want to lose weight for men