Not having a great day

Root canal yesterday, ongoing back issues, and my husband acts like a teenager most of the time. Working on mostly one income (mine) for over a year and a half now. Which wouldn't be quite so bad, but my husband is a spender. I haven't been able to do the things I need to do to get well- physically, emotionally, mentally. I am not much of a priority. I try to set boundaries and it just turns into an argument. Every. Single. Time. So I just don't, anymore. It was worse for me mentally. So here I am. Whenever I speak up or try to tell him how I feel about anything- even when he specifically asks- I'm in the wrong, or the bad guy, and it turns into an argument. So I do my best to shut up and carry on. I try to stay positive, but I really feel like crying a good part of the time.

It's not all terrible, but just getting to me today and I needed to vent. Not looking for advice or suggestions- trust me, I've tried almost everything. Just needed to get a bit of it out.