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Guys I am again disappointed with my boyfriend

He hasn't seen me for a whole week and he is supposed to come today and that we spend some time together and he decides to come around 10 in the evening while he knows I sleep early. I know he has work to do but it's our 3rd month of dating.. Am I overreacting? 😒 I don't want another one who doesn't respect and prioritize me, I've had enough of them...
SW-User
10 minutes is all he has for you... Sounds like you need to forget about him, he's clearly not making time for you 😔
elafina · 36-40, F
@SW-User he has lots of things to figure out I can see that.. but he's energetic and sweet🙂 but yes, I am not getting much respect and the attention or care that I am looking for in a relationship
Maybe you could compromise - he arrives a little earlier, you go to sleep a little later...?
elafina · 36-40, F
@Mamapolo2016 yes I could but still..
Nayla · 51-55, F
Tell him you don't want him coming over late and that you would like him to make you a priority because right now you feel like you are not a priority. Guys really don't think the way we do and I often forget that. They really do need to be told exactly what we want because they will never ever get the hint unless it's spelled out for them.
elafina · 36-40, F
@Nayla already done that though..
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
we all have different expectations when it comes to relationships i know my bf get all shirty when i dont text for a few days, but im all just like hey im busy so.........
elafina · 36-40, F
@TheCoolestCat but if we have different expectations and it is still early on the relationship, maybe it is a sign of diverse paths
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
possibly but hey these things were made to try us and all that jazz
elafina · 36-40, F
@TheCoolestCat I've done my fair share of trial and error maybe...
No, I don't think you're overreacting. I don't know his circumstances, but I would think he might work on getting to your house earlier, especially after your not seeing each other for a week. How are communications with you two about that?
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
That seems unlikely to change, but I don't know his situation.
elafina · 36-40, F
@Dolimyte things will take care of themselves, I trust. Soon, if I won't be satisfied I'll be sad, and on my way. Or he will relax.. or I will get too busy to notice before 10years pass by 😳😂
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@elafina as long as you are happy 😁
elafina · 36-40, F
@Dolimyte yes, I now realize that, thank you 😏
smiler2012 · 56-60
{elafina] well maybe you need to liase and just arrange a time with him which suits you both rather than an open invitation
Sounds like he might not be as committed to this as you are.😒
elafina · 36-40, F
@mondayschild2 he claims otherwise but you might be right. Anyways 3 months is still a figuring - it out period and this time I am not going to insist much if we don't match..
goodlil666 · 51-55, MVIP
@elafina Actions speak louder than words.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
He seems to be lacking in attention!!
elafina · 36-40, F
@Quimliqer he's 1000 things in his mind and we'll we all set our priorities I guess!
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Oh well next.

 
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