So three people have left my life in some fashion in the past month and a bit

First a friend I'd known for over 5 years that just deleted me out of their life, it didn't hurt I was just dissapointed. Then somebody I'd known for a long time (not closely) totally switched on me and was nasty, that didn't bother me either because she was a weirdo apparently so 🤷‍♂️ it was very sudden and like okaaay wtf haha.

Then I've had to let go of an old friend because I found out he tried to drug one of my female friends a long time ago because I can't really call myself a friend otherwise.

So its been a strange couple of months, I'm not one to lose friends and in a way I guess I never did apart from one of em. I'd rather not have anyone else follow the trend tbh haha but the people I have left or have "lost" weren't meant to be ay.

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SW-User

Same, people leave for their own reasons more so often. I hope it doesn't make it too hard to open up though, otherwise it can be very hard to not feel so alone.

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@SW-User Yeah, the second* has emotional issues I think but I think she wasn't a very nice person and I just never saw it. Was weird, she said I was always someone who was nice to her that same day lol. I'm not scared of being open with people at least in that aspect, and I've spent time truly alone before and yeah its horrible.

It's why I moved back to where I grew up around in the end. Hope you don't have that same problem

SW-User

@Ryannnnnn Sounds like it was a her issue then. I hope you're able to heal up though. Cutting ties with someone can be super difficult and I'm sure its very confusing.

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@SW-User I think it'll be hard with him because I don't want him to feel like I've abandoned him or something. If he calls me and somethings really bad I'll listen but yeah..it's complicated.

Thanks though you're a sweetheart, I'm okay really!. Its just odd haha.

SW-User

@Ryannnnnn Slowly distancing sounds good honestly. Just say hi here and there until you eventually fade away from one another. Much easier than going cold turkey.🤗

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@SW-User We're kinda at that point atm. He's kinda toxic in terms of his life choices so I stopped hanging around and visiting him a while ago, we talk on the phone every few months but he's unreliable anyway. It's not going to be very hard I guess lol. But yeah if he calls me on christmas or something I'm not gonna be weird, I know his family so yeah.

But yeah I think so too 🙂