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How to learn to be alone?

Recently single. Do not have a lot of close friends. How do you deal with lonlieness
Keep yourself busy by learning new skills or pursuing an interest you never got round to
SW-User
As long as the bottle isn't empty, I am never alone. Got these voices in my head keeping me company. They will be with me until I am dead. Fortunately, I can out drink every one of them.
NCCindy · 36-40, F
My solution after college ... find some activity that you enjoy and join a group that does that ... It's amazing how quick you'll make friends when you're doing something you enjoy !!!
Montanaman · M
Learn to enjoy yourself in whatever pleases you. Explore new opportunities and situations.
Don't be afraid to assert the real you. 👍🤗
FatherTime · 61-69, M
idk. I'm very alone too. I drink mostly and listen to music but even that doesn't help.
Montanaman · M
@FatherTime 😔🤗🤗
chrisCA · M
I was not lonely after my marriage had ended.
Thespis · M
Long term, make some new friends get out find a cool group to hang with. Short term, invest in some new hobbies, things to get your mind focused. Of course, SW is a great place for some chats and feeling some community!
mainvane · 61-69, M
you get used to it over time but you're reminded of how you're alone when friends / guests leave
StarLily · 51-55, F
Delve into things that interest you or that you've always wanted to learn about.
poorly, mostly. good luck in your efforts
Pretzel · 61-69, M
netflix
cooking
yard work
staying busy
retiredbum · 56-60, M
Have my share of friends
Find the things you enjoy and do them
passion · 56-60, M
Would love to get to know you!
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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Work helps with that.
SW-User
Not sure how things are in your case, but when you’ve had enough “friends” or even significant others who you really can’t get along with, some of who eventually try to be slimy and take advantage of you, you learn that being alone ain’t so bad after all!
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
You gotta accept it from within and fill your life with different distractions. Follow your passion and develop new hobbies.
Don't think of rebound, it mostly lead to a more miserable life. All the best!
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Learn to be your own best friend.
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BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
...what, is he blind
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