I'm starting to lose my confidence

I'm not doing too well finding a job. Actually I've found lots of jobs but none of them have hired me. I was confident for so long. I'd do my interviews with motivation knowing I have the skills they want, but then nothing. I'm starting to wonder whats wrong with me. In all honesty though I must be lacking in how I'm going about getting a job. I'm 41 and I can count on one hand all the jobs I've ever had. I didn't really have to put much effort out to get them. I think I just need to adjust to the reality that its going to take more strategy and job search skills to get employed.

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SirenCalledLuce · F

Don’t give up hope. I was in your shoes a couple of years ago. It was hard and there seemed to be no end to it. It felt as if all the skills I’d picked up over my previous career were without value. But it wasn’t the case.

You are right to readjust your expectations, these are after all trying times. But don’t loose heart. Remember who you are, really are. And what you have achieved. Make sure that shines through in your applications and let others know who you are. It might take some time, but it will happen.