Anyone know any ways to get over fears fast?

I think thinner heels look better than my usual block heels, but the decrease in stability paired with my stupid phobia or whatever of dislocating my patella again makes me a twitchy mess just thinking about the possibility of stumbling.

Since the fear isn't all that unfounded, I can't force myself to stumble until it no longer registers as a threat... But I really feel like I'm wasting potential here.

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JoBlak · M

I am intrigued. What potential do you feel you are wasting?

NorthernRoses · 26-30, F

@JoBlak the potential to be my sexiest self, lol. I prefer heels to flatter shoes because of how they make my legs look, but the block heels I usually wear look really casual. Which is fine most of the time, but I won't exactly look like catwoman in them.

The thinner heel is trickier to walk in, but it looks sleeker. The silhouette is much more elegant, very femme fatale in some ways. I guess I just want the option.

JoBlak · M

@NorthernRoses I am glad that it appears that it is about how YOU wish to feel.