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If you were physically incapable of lying, how would you respond to the question: “what is your toxic trait?”

Then I would have to say, “ I take extreme measures to avoid attachment to guarantee I can’t get hurt.”
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
i am intensely affected by every little thing my partners do, and i let it manifest in resentment and self hatred and self punishment which damages my relationships
SW-User
I sometimes hate myself so much that it ruins any chance of me connecting with my fellow human.
BlueVeins · 22-25
"Singular?"
raysam363 · 31-35, F
I really don't care about myself or my well-being. And yes, this affects other people.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@raysam363 hard same😬
raysam363 · 31-35, F
@poisonouscupcake Hearting this feels wrong, but it is what it is.
I'd have to say "I'm incapable of lying". Can't think of a worse trait lol
AnthroKenj · 36-40, M
I blame myself even if it wasn’t at all my fault.
SW-User
I get homicidal
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reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
i'm very nice to people which makes them think they are developing something with me but really i am as friendly with friends or strangers, i confide in absolutely anyone who happens to be in front of me when i need to get something off my chest. i can see someone every day for years and over night change my habits and stop seeing them. my ability to create deep lasting relationship is pretty bad and people who invest energy in becoming close to because i seem so kind and warm discover that i am just a nice person with little attachment to specific people. this is why i like being here, i can just say what i want to say to whoever feels like reading it or respond to it
Kurea · 31-35, T
I tell people if they need someone to talk to I'm here, but in reality it was me that needed someone to talk too...
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My toxic trait is my massive dick and huge balls
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
My self esteem is so low I’m incapable of making myself feel happy directly
I only feel happy by making others happy
So I’m a people pleaser to an excessive degree and when I feel I did something wrong, it breaks something in me
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
Horniness 😩
Viper · M
I would probably say, like yours, I cut Myst off from the rest of the world so it won't hurt me.

Also procrastinating.
I believe you. You've mentioned that before.

I'm not sure what mine is because I am not sure what you mean by "toxic."
SW-User
I'm stubborn and I don't let things go and when someone hurts me I often seek revenge.
Whyme · 46-50, M
I guess if you want honesty i can be an asshole and sometimes enjoy conflict
I never think anyone is truly in my side no matter how close we seem
Sicarium · 46-50, M
"I like intentionally pissing off stupid people."
Coppercoil · M
But aren't you hurting yourself more by depriving yourself deeply meaningful and satisfying relationships?
Thebestof1995 · 26-30, F
Another brutally honest confession: I truly don’t believe in true love, and I deliberately choose to disregard if there are any genuine people with genuine intentions when it comes to relationships. @Coppercoil
Coppercoil · M
@Thebestof1995 that hurt to read.. i don't mean that as a criticism.. i can't imagine having that attitude or feeling that way. I'm sure you are well adapted and have made the most of your life.. maybe even fairly happy.. but from my perspective (which is all I know) that is a tragedy of a sentiment to hear expressed.
Thebestof1995 · 26-30, F
I take it you’ve had several pleasant relationships that had an impact on you in your lifetime? Maybe that’s why you have faith. @Coppercoil
Apparently, you've been hurt pretty badly. Probably more than once.
Thebestof1995 · 26-30, F
Honestly, that’s not really the case. This isn’t one of those scenarios where someone’s been hurt multiple times over and over, because I have little experience in the dating world. I’ve dated two people in the past 10 years and that’s it. First guy I barely knew, second guy I knew him pretty well but I felt the same way about him as I’ve described in this post. Bottom line, we had some good times but I still didn’t actually believe he truly loved me. @quitwhendone
@Thebestof1995 What about the first guy? You say you hardly knew him. How long did you date him?
Thebestof1995 · 26-30, F
A few months. We were more like friends, you know? Went for walks in the city and ate Italian sandwiches and went to the movies. We didn’t act much like a real boyfriend/girlfriend couple. @quitwhendone
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I struggle to appropriately express myself when I feel someone I care about has been disrespected. I can take things further than is smart.
Coppercoil · M
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit so like the momma bear attacks?
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Are you trying to say you're violent when people piss you off?

 
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