Is it normal to back away from a woman for a little while after sex?

I get called out on that a lot but it's nothing personal against them it's just how I am. After I have sex with someone I need a break from them for a little while lol. Just 2 or 3 days. I don't get why that's such a big deal.

If you cant entertain yourself for that long that's a problem.

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Cabernetfranc · 80-89, M Best Comment

My pet rooster has the same feelings. Once he has sex with a hen, he will not go back to her until he has had sex with all the other hens. Works the same with cows and other domestic animals. The problem for you is that human females will not accept this from men even though you are perfectly normal. Not wanting to talk to or be around a woman after sex is an emotion that you will learn to hide if you want there to be a next time. 🤫

666Maggotz · F

@Cabernetfranc I’m so thankful I ended up a lesbian omg

Specialyouare · 36-40, F

@Cabernetfranc I actually agree with this. I know for a fact that no one wants to be trapped to one person. Analyzing the animal kingdom is very important and attempting to analyze ourselves objectively.

666Maggotz · F

A lot of animals mate for life 🤔 A goose will literally get so deep into depression if they lose their one partner that they die. @Specialyouare

Specialyouare · 36-40, F

@666Maggotz Interesting. I think it’s very hard and scary to build trust within humans. Humans are very tricky actors and deceivers.

Cabernetfranc · 80-89, M

@666Maggotz Yes I had that in mind when I talked about domestic animals. Wild animals have a wider variety of reproductive strategies than humans. I applaud female chimps who have sex with every available male when they are in heat. That way any of the males could be the father. Though wild geese mate for life, DNA has shown that they frequently “cheat”.

666Maggotz · F

I feel like it would just be easier for humans to not make a commitment and just communicate that 🤷‍♀️ I respect men who just say they don’t want anything but sex. Men who don’t say that are the ones who always get these issues hahah @Cabernetfranc