Is it normal to back away from a woman for a little while after sex?

I get called out on that a lot but it's nothing personal against them it's just how I am. After I have sex with someone I need a break from them for a little while lol. Just 2 or 3 days. I don't get why that's such a big deal.

If you cant entertain yourself for that long that's a problem.

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Cabernetfranc · 80-89, M Best Comment

My pet rooster has the same feelings. Once he has sex with a hen, he will not go back to her until he has had sex with all the other hens. Works the same with cows and other domestic animals. The problem for you is that human females will not accept this from men even though you are perfectly normal. Not wanting to talk to or be around a woman after sex is an emotion that you will learn to hide if you want there to be a next time. 🤫

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Specialyouare · 36-40, F

@666Maggotz Interesting. I think it’s very hard and scary to build trust within humans. Humans are very tricky actors and deceivers.

Cabernetfranc · 80-89, M

@666Maggotz Yes I had that in mind when I talked about domestic animals. Wild animals have a wider variety of reproductive strategies than humans. I applaud female chimps who have sex with every available male when they are in heat. That way any of the males could be the father. Though wild geese mate for life, DNA has shown that they frequently “cheat”.

666Maggotz · F

I feel like it would just be easier for humans to not make a commitment and just communicate that 🤷‍♀️ I respect men who just say they don’t want anything but sex. Men who don’t say that are the ones who always get these issues hahah @Cabernetfranc

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666Maggotz · F

Women tend to put emotions towards sex. No contact afterwards makes us feel like you don’t care 🤷‍♀️

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SW-User

@666Maggotz it is kinda when you barely know said person.

I know I didnt express this so you had no way of knowing but I just started talking to this girl like a week ago.

Just because I have sex with you doesnt mean I love you...its merely a strong indicator that I like you somewhat.

666Maggotz · F

Why don’t you just say that to her? It’s better to communicate your intentions BEFORE, to prevent an miscommunication. @SW-User

SW-User

@666Maggotz true enough I guess. Its whatever. Live and learn.

Keepitsimple · 56-60, F

So you just need booty calls essentially?

SW-User

@Keepitsimple not exactly. I just need things to be the same after as they were before. Why yall gotta make shit weird? Lol.

Specialyouare · 36-40, F

I feel it is normal to want to feel like no one wants to “trap” you just because you’ve had sex with them.

Nanori · F

you sound really fucked up

SW-User

@Nanori Explain. Why exactly is that fucked up?

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MethDozer · M

I hear you brother. However many women won't.

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