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So Why Does it Hurt?

As I spend most holidays alone, and forget it is even a holiday, why do I feel so hurt when my oldest child says they are leaving town for a week to spend Thanksgiving at some other place, in another state? It’s not like we’d planned anything here together. I didn’t realize until yesterday that it was Thanksgiving this coming week.

Maybe it’s because my oldest is my only relative in this city, this state, and this country, and I was already feeling sad missing those I’ve lost from my life...husband, pets, etc; and there has been some anniversaries in the past few days with memories of holidays in times past. I have no friends in this city and state, so I’ll be completely alone. Maybe it’s all the above.
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I relate somewhat,.except I have lost joy in the holidays since my son passed away. My heart is not in it. I wish I could be alone and not see anyone but I don't want to leave my mom alone. I sorry you will be alone....the worst time for that is the holidays ((hug))
Carissimi · F
@ravenwind43 I had no idea that you lost your son. I am so sorry, and offer my heartfelt sympathy. When did it happen, Raven?
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Carissimi It was a year ago in June and thank you...its been a struggle. Some days are better than others. I can laugh again and that is a good thing🙂
Carissimi · F
@ravenwind43 🤗🤗🤗 Raven, you are so brave. I don’t know how you are still standing. I hope you have loving support of family and friends around you. Bless you, dear. My heart weeps for you. (Loving hugs)
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Carissimi some days I am not to be honest but I know I have to keep going. My life is rather solitary in many respects so doing the counseling thing and using the gym as a form of therapy. I am trying to take care of myself.Thank you 💙💟
Carissimi · F
@ravenwind43 Count me as one who is here for you should you need a friend to talk with.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Carissimi That means a lot and the same goes for you as well🙂
Carissimi · F
@ravenwind43 Thank you, Raven.