Can this ever be okay?

I asked my sitter why she was not being honest with me. She keeps going quiet and seems to want to get out of the house as fast as she can to get away from me.
She said it always feels like I am putting her in her place or 'telling her off' when she is honest with me. I am angry and don't know what to say back to her or if this can even be resolved. Thoughts?

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english · 56-60, M

well you have nt handled well so far have you, so how true is her statement you did nt exactly deny it,are yhou always on her case ,probably so which would give her a reason to go quiet ,she probably thinking your never satisfied ,no poit in talking to you ,have nt said why you are mad ,to accuse someone of not be honest without proof ,or on a hunch is just out of order ,your be lucky if she does nt quit .😕

BluePlanet · 36-40, M

@english Over the past few months I have had to ask why she can't look me in the eye and why she is quick to leave. It mainly comes down to feeling undervalued on her side is the answer I always get. I am tired of it.I have always asked her to be honest with me and she is not being that way now.