Have you had a midlife crisis, yet?

@SW-User You are one of the good ones, really sorry to hear it

@Bushmanoz Thanks! still, i'm trying my best to have a mid-life crisis, but i when i just start to feel like total crap, i keep slipping out of it and feeling happy. I must be doing something wrong 🤔

@SW-User Mate, you are not suppose to actively work towards a midlife crisis, maybe its just the way you are wired, you maybe someone who looks back and appreciated the the better times rather than focusing on the crap ones

@Bushmanoz That sounds like the way it is for me. People say ooooh you're having a mid-life crisis.. me: oh am i? what am i supposed to do? They say oh well get depressed a lot, do weird stuff and act like you're in your 20's. Hmm so i already do the latter, depression comes and goes, but i keep meeting great people who are fun to be around, so that kind of ruins the whole thing 😂

@SW-User good for you mate. I know the feeling, my brain still thinks im 24, I just no a bit more. really sorry to hear about your wife

@Bushmanoz Yes, my body thinks it's 24 as well until i go out running or swimming and then think ooops... what have i got myself into 😬. Thanks, yes she fought breast cancer for nearly 10 years. She was an amazing lady.

@SW-User Got no words mate, you are a top bloke which says she must have had either amazing taste or none at all.

@Bushmanoz It's a long story for another time but thanks, all we can do with relationships is try out best and hope things last.

@SW-User I am sorry to hear about your wife.

@latinbutterfly Thanks! we were so close so it's been a tough thing to get through.