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Do you justify your ugly behavior by blaming someone else's?

Do you give someone that much power over you?
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Listening · 26-30, M
Isn't that what you are doing right now?
Furiousfrog · 31-35, M
Am I being ugly?

I didn't know I was blaming anyone.... am i?
Listening · 26-30, M
So you don't do that then? Looking back on this question is that not exactly what you are doing? I don't know.
Furiousfrog · 31-35, M
I don't think so?

It would be if I was saying someone was a giant ******* who blamed everyone else for their nasty behaviot. But I think I'm just asking a question. No blame, and I don't really think I'm being ugly. Just sincerely, wondering what people think about this type of behavior.
Listening · 26-30, M
Have you done it before? Subconsciously?
Furiousfrog · 31-35, M
Well sure, I think everyone has justified being wrong in a variety of ways on other people.

Another way to look at this question might just be, do you take responsibility for your own actions?

It's part of being an adult. Learning to own your shit, and not think its ok to be wrong just because someone else is.
Listening · 26-30, M
Sometimes I blame other people I guess, slip ups are made.
Furiousfrog · 31-35, M
We all suck pretty bad sometimes. :)