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User41 · 36-40, M

I was never hit as a kid.

🤔 well I was... but never by my parents.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

I was always fine no marks left. 3-5 ish swats

brian29715 · 46-50, M

The go fetch your own switch was the worst.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

yes

hami1091 · 41-45, F

Just the belt myself when it comes to implements I got spanked with a open hand other than that.

Reading your comments I'm calling your bluff, not saying the marks lasted but don't tell us you were struck with any implement and didn't get a mark. Not possible even if they faded quick.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

well clearly there wa San immediate mark but it faded writhing a few minutes. My point was more as an emotional mark. The only time I actually had a long lasting mark was after stealing my bio dads car and driving it home from a party drunk. And that’s only because A I was 14 and B I’m talented enough to get pulled over by not any cop but my uncle..... he sent for another car for the other teens and I went home with him where I got the worst belting I ever have. But it’s not like I didn’t deserve it.

hami1091 · 41-45, F

@Soramarie I'm not laughing and I'm not reading all that and I'll bet.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

wait what. What do you mean you aren’t reading it? Sorry you lost me on your reply entirely. What are you trying to say lol

texasmentor54 · 70-79, M

My parents both used the belt.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

my mom used a belt usually or her wooden cutting board (she’s a chef)

UckfayOuyayOotay · 46-50, M

Dad used a belt. Mom started with fly swatters and then switched to wire hangers when she got tired of breaking swatters.

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UckfayOuyayOotay · 46-50, M

@Soramarie Oh, our grade school and high school administrators liked to use something like that. One coach had holes drilled in his and a small whistle in the center hole so you could hear it coming, lol

Soramarie · 26-30, F

ok I’m not gonna lie that’s genius! 😂 my teachers had regular paddles. She’s just a chef so it’s what she had 😂

Soramarie · 26-30, F

i actually handed my mom a dowel the other day for a project and she started swooshing it and looked at me. I was like I will literally end you 😂

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Nunlover

Dont see a boot or first so add two

Soramarie · 26-30, F

sorry you were punched. That’s totally not ok.

SW-User

@Nunlover a fist is not punishment that is abuse.

frenchstrictdad · 46-50, M

@SW-User Corporal punishment can be used but beating is something else

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

I wasnt physically abused

Soramarie · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst good to know neither was I

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Soramarie yeah you was.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst just cause I received discipline that worked for me, and made me the successful person I am today. If that’s abuse I’ll take it. We at most got 3-5 swats with whatever it was. I was spanked in school too. Never had a mark, never felt unloved. It’s when people go overboard that it becomes abuse.

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