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Did this dude literally just tell his gf

“You need to be with a dude that beat your azz everyday then you’d see what real abuse looks like. You’d really appreciate me then.” Where dafuq do they find these dudes? Is there a shitty bf R US somewhere I don’t know about?
VioletRayne
36-40, F
40 replies 150 views Jul 17, 2019
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SomeMichGuy · M
Oh lord this is a GREAT post. lol

Your summary is perfect.
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SomeMichGuy · M
@VioletRayne Just so...unimaginable. smh
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@SomeMichGuy I honestly wish I hadn’t heard it, but I was at Wal-Mart. Not surprised honestly
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SomeMichGuy · M
@VioletRayne so sad 😣
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SW-User
Well he sounds charming. I'd love for him to be my bf and talk to me like that. That mf would be afraid to go to sleep.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@SW-User A woman after my own heart. I was ready to pack up n leave him and it wasn’t even my boyfriend.
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@SW-User He would not dare to talk to you like that.
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StevenIzzi · M
It's only funny til someone makes him their bitch.
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StevenIzzi · M
@VioletRayne He does not need to hit her to validate that he is a punk.

He can (and is) still a disrespectful douche and deserves to be alone.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@StevenIzzi oh yeah he needs to go ASAP. But some chicks just don’t want to let go
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StevenIzzi · M
Of course not, the problem is that he has done a serious number on her self esteem and thus feels that she would rather be miserable than alone because he has her thinking that nobody will want her.
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
His gf needs to dump his ass.Do it in public just like this was.
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snofan · M
@tallpowerhouseblonde Amen sister!
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde She didn’t
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@VioletRayne I would scratched out his eyes immediately if he spoke to me like that.
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xixgun · M
Having been on the other side of this conversation (and this being totally taken out of context), I can only say that I have seen many women who claim, because someone told them "no" when they wanted to go somewhere or buy something, that they are being abused - that perhaps he was simply trying to give her a lesson in realism and suggesting that she stop claiming abuse when there is none.

That being said, I think they should immediately break up for both their sakes.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@xixgun If everytime she wants to do something with you, your answer is no that is a form of emotional abuse and manipulation. If you’re controlling the funds and she can never buy what she needs or wants that’s a form of mental abuse and manipulation. Which is why I would never be able to not have my own income or freedom. That being said It wasn’t the case here from what I heard of the conversation.
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xixgun · M
@VioletRayne Wow. You just projected a whole bunch of crap at me and none of it applies. The only time I ever told a woman she couldn’t buy something was because rent was due. The only time I told a woman she couldn’t do something with me was due to other commitments, like work. And though I always covered my half of the bills, I never had a girlfriend who made less money than me. I guess you heard what you wanted to.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@xixgun I never said that you did any of those things. I am well aware that there are spoiled, manipulative women out there. I don’t presume to know anything about anyone. There’s an “If” at the beginning of those statements. I’m simply saying there is another side to your statement as well. Maybe the fact that you internalized what was said is something you might need to look into.
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SW-User
He sounds like a douche. I hope she leaves his retarded ass!
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@SW-User I hope so too. I was ready to deck him and I don’t even know the girl.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
http://www.mates-r-us.com ? 🤔
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer I dunno, but wherever she caught this fish she needs to throw him back preferably into some rocks
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@VioletRayne Oh that would be plentyoffish.com 😈
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer 💀💀💀💀
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SW-User
He deserves to be forever alone ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@SW-User Sad thing is she didn’t throw a drink in his face n give him the bird like I wanted her to.
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SW-User
@VioletRayne or even told her, run as fast as you can
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Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
😂😂😂

At your last line. Not at the behavior of the “dude”. 😲
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SW-User
Lmao his girlfriend better leave him
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@SW-User exit stage left with the quickness
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SW-User
@VioletRayne Hahahaha yes
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MsAnnThropy
He sounds really charming. A guy every woman wants. 🙄
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@MsAnnThropy I’m shook. He said that in public like it was normal. Like he was reciting his grocery list. I’m done.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
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snofan · M
Was this to you?
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@snofan Oh No. I don’t know anyone dumb enough to think they’d get past azz before someone would need to call the police to get me off of them.
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