If you could choose...

@silkydrawers I think a lot is instinct but honestly I have always been very happy I was born a female. I love girly things mostly. I guess I could enjoy driving trucks etc but I like being a submissive female.

@Fungirlmmm This is just interjection here, how does the one who could be driving a truck, being submissive, get to know how other's understand? I put a lot to empathy, and we no matter who we are we live the life of
others we don't even know.

@SW-User I just know I'm female. I'm not basing the question on anyone else but myself. It doesn't mean that I do not have empathy for others because I state my truth. You should know from our conversations I have a great deal of empathy; however this answer was about myself and no one else.

@Fungirlmmm Not sure about the science....more of an art-form.

@Fungirlmmm Question asked towards you, so thank you. And somewhere even in my questions, could be seen critical, I wanted to an answer open which to me means a loving heart,

@SW-User I think we all identify as who we are. I also think that at least a small part of who we are as adults is based on the nurturing or non nurturing we receive as children. Although that doesn't impact whether you get chromosomes of a Male versus female I think it has a lot to do with how we behave and react.

@Fungirlmmm Indeed. Somewhere I'm a prude, somewhere I'm for better words a perv. I'm also a lover without someone to love. I wonder how the terms begin, and then I have to bat with those who say my chromosomes should display this.

@SW-User I never said that just because you have Male chromosomes you can't feel like a woman. Again I answered a simple question about what I want to be. Only you can answer for yourself and label yourself with whatever designator you want to wear. I truly believe if we label ourselves winners that our attitudes will follow if we truly believe it, and if we label ourselves as victims, then we also take on that mentality. You can be whatever you want to be. I would never infringe upon that. You can be attracted to whomever or whatever you want, and again I would not try to stop you from it but the labels that personally fit me are winning submissive female and what anyone else says is irrelevant because I know what I am and I've proven it over and over through many decades.

@Fungirlmmm Not quite what I said, but thank you, and I'm sure you have chosen how you want in life and love

@SW-User PS: I have never labeled you any of those things. The only label I have ever put on you is "friend".