Random situation:

So I've been i a relationship for a year. Quite solid. A successful guy. Confident, charming, attractive intelligent...

My entire life evolved in the different direction. We live together. He has sole custody of a beautiful 5 year old girl.

Ive become a home maker. Worker in a surf shop for 7 years.. Did my own thing.

My feelings for him changed that.

Two months ago he began inquiring about my feeling on breast augmentation. Had never thought of it. But began to realize it was something he wanted. No pressure. Said it was no big deal...

Then I did it. B...to.. D.

A weird adjustment.

Im happy.

Life is good.

As of late he's begun talking about a butt procedure.

And...

I'm sorta weirded out about it.

Thoughts?

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SW-User

This is a red flag. You don't have to change your body just because he wants you to. And the breast procedure is really a simple/harmless one, the others not so much... Like at all. Leave your body the way it is, if he can't deal with that then leave.

That's messed up.

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@SW-User The breast procedure is not always simple nor is it always harmless. It is still a major surgery and things can (and often do) go wrong. Being the most common of body modification procedures doesn't necessarily make it easy. That's why doing it for plain vanity or to please someone else isn't the brightest of ideas.